Can a jobless man marry a girl who is a government officer ??? We say a big NO..Then how can a joble

@Tirth V. Dalal We can man..we can...we r 50% by population...Why cant we change our society ?? why cant we make it more conducing for men?? We can do it...

 

Bro we have to change our mindset and most of the problems will be sorted out...

 

Congrats for the double century xD. If you yourself can't make your sister marry to her 'gareeb' bf and telling her ki koi Achha dhoondh then congrats you belong to the same mentality. Don't complain about the system. I know, you belong to the same class. Feminism Feminism chillana band karo. And rahi baat kisi IAS se tumse shadi karne ki then vo itni greedy nahi hai.. Use koi sensible insaan chahiye whom she can respect, koi kaam vala nahi jo bartan saaf kare uske. In India, boys' family demand sanskaari, gharelu, seedhi sadhi ladki jo ghar ka sara kaam karde..Chahe kamati ho ya nahi, nahi kamayegi to dabke rahegi - ye soch hai and that's where their pride lies in. It's totally his and his family's decision. Blame your own families. Lalchi vo ladke vale hain jo IAS k naam pe dowry le lete hain, zindagi bhar ki kaam wali plus 30 40 lac. Lalchi kon hua then? And Koi jbradsti to karte nahi hain. Tum bhi kar lo tumhe is tarah se business karna ho to. IAS ho to IAS se karo. Kisi ne nahi roka. But vo jo ladki IAS hai, uski family itni lalchi nahi, they are sensible people. Aur sirf isiliye nahi karenge vo. Not like they are greedy for some better groom. Can you be ghar jamai, leave your family, carry the girl's surname, bear pregnancy and other health issues at the same time? No you simply can't. A small courtesy and privileges given to women do not harm anyone. Be grateful. Stop being a hate monger or a jealous specie and preaching "feminist alert".

 

Wat small privileges u r talking about??India is the most Matriarchal women pandering anti-male country in the world. Only country which has reserved seats in buses, trains, entire compartments, governments jobs and seats in universities and schools ONLY for women. Why? What a shame. Do men still want to marry? More like, do men still want to commit suicide ??It's sad being oppressed and live in a society where you're 'proclaimed' guilty, when you haven't done anything .. Women misuse 498 A just to oppress males and seek huge compensations.. U first need to change ur misandrist attitude

 

@Mohit Savita Awesome logic...U must get noble prize for it....I acccept the truth that women work hard for the family and they bear child ...I also admit that she takes pains for the healthy growth of her child...But u completely ignored role of a man...Fathers also work day in, day out for their families....But feminist like u will not get it...U feminist people always think ill of men.I don't know how do u face boys in your life..do u hate ur brothers?....only Men are killed on the borders, only men are killed by the terrorists,,only men are killed in war, only men are killed in robbery cases, only men are killed in any violence...Even then u say men have easy life...salute to your logic power...Most of the tough jobs are done by men..families financial burden is always put on men and this leads to suicide which is highest among Indian men...Men are punished on roads for any eventualities even when woman is at the fault bcz our mindset is narrow and we think only man can torture woman...First change your mindset otherwise it will get very tough for u to live with any man in ur life...U r completely anti-men......

 

Dev Banerjee Barso se hum male patriarchal society me jee rahe hain... Kuch incidence ho gaye against men to uska matalab ye nahi ki all women are to be blamed for it. Women have been suffering at a much much greater pace. Talking facts. Aur kuch seats de di bethne ki usse kuch nahi ho jata hai.. Rahi baat women reservation ki to India me hmesha se dominant part male hi hai and still is. That's why it's introduced to bring equality. @Deepak Gupta you're comparing physical strength with gender. Males are much stronger than females.. That is the only reason they are at there. For example, during war...females can be molested, harassed and raped which also can affect their social dignity, EQ. They can be sold even.... Human trafficking. That's documentary on wars talking, not me.

 

@Mohit Savita Even in USA there is patriarchal society , men are dominating in all jobs...The highest number of rapes is in USA...Highest ratio of crime against women is in USA....Even then u blame India and Indian men only....shame on u..first get your facts right then only u can argue with anyone....

 

@Mohit Savita U know what wrong is today.. the concept of Independent woman........ Man always try to run his family... but independent women destroy it.. word independent itself means that they are not depend on anyone.. then how couple can live together?? pyar jyada samay tak tik nhi pata agr wo ek dusre ki care na kare.. ek dusre ke bare me na soche... ghr kisi ek se nhhi chalta.. dono ka participation important... but the concept of independent woman repeatedly destroying it.

 

@Deepak Gupta When did I blame only Indian men? Jaha jo wrong hai.. Vo oppose karo simple. I'm feminism = equalism. Ladki galat hai, punish her too. Dimaag me bethti nahi kya ye definition? @Shiwang Pandey exactly. Same typical Indian mentality. If a girl is honest then there is no otherwise case. Same goes for the guy. Ye to upbringing pe depend karta hai. Loyal hain to nibha lenge. Big deal? Aur ab us darr se kya independent hone se bhi rok doge kya.

 

bhailog rahne do bechari ko kyu tang kr rhe ho...Let her have her own opinion...She is free to express her mindset...Bechari akeli lad rhi..mujhe kisi ladki se nhi ladna....M sorry

 

@Mohit Savita not at all... girl can live his life and can work also but she has to taken care of her house also... by doing job and saying they too earning and will not look towards the households work is not right.

 

@Mohit Savita wat facts are u talking about ?? 53 % rape cases r fake fabricated by women for their benefits why do u want reservations and special treatment when u demand equality why is the equality needed only when it suits u why the rape acquittals never get reported?Why a woman after lazily spending 20 years on her husband's income demand any compensation after divorce.. U really need a fact checker first before commenting ur feminist nonsense here

 

@Deepak Gupta In your own mind, "mujhe kisi ladki se nahi ladna, bechari" that shows how weak you consider us girls, assuming yourself supreme. That's why RESERVATION. @Shiwang Pandey see... Bahar kaa bhi, ghar ka bhi.. Sara kaam kar le...With full dedication without fail. Kuch Tum bhi kar lo...be supportive... Never will be a problem there.

 

and according to todays law... even false case made by women is considered strictly but same is not happened with man... see government should look towards the women.. it is necessary but at the same time government should take care of man also. otherwise, jaise aaj sc st obc chal rha hai waise hi ye case bhi ho jayega.. sc st ko uss time need thi reservation ki lekin aaj nhi.. aaj sabse jyda reservation to general candidates ko jarurat hai... theek issi trh woman ko uthate uthate kahin man hi na daab jaye.. dono ko parallely chalana chaiye..... thats it

 

Yeh government women empowerment k chakkar mein humare seer k upar hi baitha diya

 

@Mohit Savita man always support.. kisi bhi ghr me dekhlo aaj ke time household work mein kahin kahin man bhi lage hai but woman wants to stay away from it ... sirf independent ke concept se... depend hone se koi chota nhi hota... 17th century thodi na jo exploitation kia jayega... depending upon each other will always increase love and bonding between them.. but the same is not possible with independent women and do not take me wrong otherwise.... my intention is just to make a balance between man and woman.. and not to make any superior or inferior kind........

 

@Mohit Savita I said it out of respect and I wanted to show some privileges to u..I didn't mean anything disparaging....U got me wrong...If u have self respect of this level then why do u enjoy reservation everywhere...leave it na...Actually the problem is feminists decide their rights and responsibility according to their convenience....

 

Ek naye bhaiya. Dev Banerjee numerous cases of females being raped are not even reported. Check that too. Kahi witness nahi, Kahi powerful support kisi mp ka, Kahi social status ke liye... Various reasons. Baki jo galat hai vo galat hai.. Whether it's male or female. @Shiwang Pandey abhi to start hua hai reservation. Jab need puri ho jayegi, khatam kar lena. @Deepak Gupta I'm general. And Mene konsa women reservation ka uthaya liya fayda... Ya kisi ka rape kar diya. Only, train busses me seat mil jati hai, women coach hai.. Safety ke liye metros me.. aur banks me lambi lines nahi hoti. Ab tum hi bata do rest privileges that in general we can use at each time without being scared of any punishment. I'm not able to recollect them.

 

@Mohit Savita Cool down .....I am not gonna argue wit u any longer...kisi ne sahi kaha h ladkiyo se argument me kabhi nhi jeet sakte ho..unke paas chhatees excuses hote h...I rest my case here...

 

Chor do na sab privileges kahe le rahi ho itna equality maang hai to apne benefits k time kyun equality yaaad Ati hai??

 

DevBanerjee Just like your Kishan Verma stated... 90%And privileges nahi chahiye ek bhi...Rakh lo chahe.

 

Hmmm...rehne do. I don't have anything to do with women reservation and exploiting guys wrongly. Because i don't belong to those girls. I belong to the majority.

 

@Mohit Savita tum advocate kyu nhi ban jaati.. faltu apna time kharab kar rhi ho cgl me..tum koi women organisation join kar lo...

 

I didn't mention any % factor to you.There are facts for each and everything on net, Google it yourselves. Har cheez ke facts ratt k nhi Bethi Mai.. i read somewhere.

 

@Mohit Savita tum kisi fighter plane se kam nhi ho....kaise handle krta hoga tumhara bf tumhe...mujhe to us pe taras aati h..

 

Thanks for the award. Haarna Maine seekha nahi. Good observation, because My all male friends talk sense, only that's why we are friends.

 

Are Bhai. Ye tumhari soch hai tum is thought ko kis sense me lete ho.

 

Yaah. Karma.Are bhai Kishan Verma hoga case , mujhe kya Karna Usse. Jo galat hai vo galat hai. Mai koi kattar feminist nahi hun, Jo men ko support na kare. I just support equality, justice..Ab chahe use koi bhi naam de do. But it seems aap log zaroor misogynist ho.

 

Too bad if something had done to exploit an innocent guy.

 

Datz wat these feminists can do zero facts logic nw name calling and abuses